Comments on: 10 Essential Qualities Of A Virtuous Husband

By: Dolfenix

Dolfenix — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 14:59:18 +0000

Hello Ed,
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this one. Yes the issue of appropriate sexual behaviour among Christians is a controversial one.

You are right in pointing out that these are the days of making ‘emotional’ rather than ‘spiritual’ decisions. That is true. Unfortunately, there with the big profit margins from selling ‘romance’. Therefore not many people let alone Christians stop to consider what the Spirit might be saying in their situation. They don’t look beyond the heat of the moment. It’s all about satisfaction in the here and now. So thanks again for sharing.
New Year Blessings on you.

By: Ed

Ed — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 04:54:56 +0000

The touchy (if you will excuse the pun) subject of sexual compatibility before marriage can be satisfied (again, excuse the pun!) quite simply by following the guidance laid out quite clearly in Romans 8, “they that are in the flesh cannot please God.” If you keep your eyes off guys’ butts and pecs and on God, he will drop that perfect guy in your life. After making a complete and total mess of my love life by following what my hormones led me to do instead of what God had for me, I decided to turn over my life to him – including dating and sex. He has shown me through prayer and meditation that even lust can cause us to look favorably on a man who is otherwise unsuitable, and skew our judgment. Your vision and judgment will be much clearer and you will be able to hear God’s voice much more clearly if you keep your thoughts on God and your hormones under control.

These days even men and women in the body of Christ seem to feel that sexual activity between potential mates is acceptable behavior, when in fact it is a road to making emotional instead of spiritual decisions, quite often with disastrous results.

By: Woman Pastor Seeks Virtuous Husband | Marvia's Panama Journal

Woman Pastor Seeks Virtuous Husband | Marvia's Panama Journal — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 03:16:36 +0000

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By: Marvia

Marvia — Fri, 02 Nov 2007 19:12:40 +0000

Womanistmrf,
Welcome! Sorry for the delay in responding to your comment. I was on a ‘Caribbean tour’…:-)

Thanks for sharing your insights. I loved this – “Yes, I have such a virtuous male wife, and here is the ting now mi bredren and sistren- ‘Im is a Minister in the Maker’s Vineyard.”

I am happy to hear that your Virtuous Husband is a man of the cloth who is comfortable in his own skin.

Nuff Respect to you my brother!!

Looking forward to hearing more of your thoughts.

By: Empress

Empress — Thu, 01 Nov 2007 01:57:31 +0000

Interesting…but member mi tell you… all that glitter is not gold. As we say in Antigua ” see me and live with me are two different things”. What you see is not always what you get.